I am alone in the room.
Writing what’s on my mind.
I don’t have any subject to write about.
I just do.
And now, I have few lines created.
What would be the next?
Thoughts in my mind are bare.
No emotional stuffs to put in writing.
I just want to construct something out of nothing.
Is this worth it?
What do you think?
Have you done something like this?
I bet you do.
You can’t just do something until you suddenly do something.
Without even thinking what would you really want to achieve.
Now, this is it.
This is something like outlet of your unknown thoughts.
With all the things that makes you think so hard and so deep can make your mind or thoughts became empty.
And now you don’t know where to start until you begin at something that’s not really on your mind to begin with.
Somehow it can help relax your mind, am I right?
Yes it is. Your mind was like doing some exercise.
Feel the difference between doing something with your mind working really hard and
doing something freely out of your mind’s thought.
It’s less stressful at the same time, unloading your heavy thoughts in mind.
Person that fits
Everybody knows nobody's perfect.
So dont always expect a perfect person.
Let's talk about how can we make a person perfect for us.
I personally dont know how. Standards are not set yet.
The big question is, do we really have to set a standard to make a person
perfect for our eyes? Wait! We are getting personal here.
Let's have some general discussions about "Perfect" or "Ideal"
Being a perfect person will always depend on what other sees you or depends on the position that fits for you.
Lets have some example here:
You are perfect to someone's eyes. You became ideal because of what that person sees on you.
Sometimes you are not aware of it but being you will always be perfect as they adore you.
For some people, you are nothing but for the person who likes you will disregard everything
negative coz you are the apple of their eyes.
You are perfect for the job. You are hired because you fits in the position. You are capable of doing such things
according to the job that you have. This is not all about the physical and emotional aspect. This is about what
you can do and what other sees on you.
We are all not perfect but we can be perfect in some things and for some people.
We can't do everything but we can be good at something and more like the ideal one.
Acceptance from other people makes us perfect.
Learning from ourselves makes us perfect too or called faultless.
Remember, "Practice makes you perfect"
See... It always work on both ways.
If you want to be good at something, you have learn and make other accept you for what you can do
and can possibly make you a person that fits.
So dont always expect a perfect person.
Let's talk about how can we make a person perfect for us.
I personally dont know how. Standards are not set yet.
The big question is, do we really have to set a standard to make a person
perfect for our eyes? Wait! We are getting personal here.
Let's have some general discussions about "Perfect" or "Ideal"
Being a perfect person will always depend on what other sees you or depends on the position that fits for you.
Lets have some example here:
You are perfect to someone's eyes. You became ideal because of what that person sees on you.
Sometimes you are not aware of it but being you will always be perfect as they adore you.
For some people, you are nothing but for the person who likes you will disregard everything
negative coz you are the apple of their eyes.
You are perfect for the job. You are hired because you fits in the position. You are capable of doing such things
according to the job that you have. This is not all about the physical and emotional aspect. This is about what
you can do and what other sees on you.
We are all not perfect but we can be perfect in some things and for some people.
We can't do everything but we can be good at something and more like the ideal one.
Acceptance from other people makes us perfect.
Learning from ourselves makes us perfect too or called faultless.
Remember, "Practice makes you perfect"
See... It always work on both ways.
If you want to be good at something, you have learn and make other accept you for what you can do
and can possibly make you a person that fits.
Factors why teenagers losing their way
Most of the teenagers nowadays are encircled with temptations.
Their experience is not enough to guide them in making decision and dealing with daily life.
This is why elders or older one must keep an eye for guidance.
I have notice that there are lots of teenagers these days lost their way.
They have given an instant responsibility at the wrong time.
The responsibility I am talking with is unwanted pregnancy.
Why does this happen?
Teenagers just want to explore life. Some factors that trigger these kind of incident are the following:
- Environment.
- Movies and televisions
- People around them.
Let’s tackle it one by one.
Environment: A person's environment can somehow affect a person's lifestyle, attitude, perspective in life, etc.
Yes, not all us can afford to choose and live the life according to what we want. Of course, the type of family you have will always counts. In this case, we need parents help to guide their children/teens.
Take note that it is parent's responsibility to take care of their child but as a concern citizen, we should impart our knowledge to build a good community as well.
Movies and Televisions: What we watch/see can become our deeds and a habit. For younger ones, we should let them see what
is appropriate with their age. Also, let them understand why they need to get away from prohibited programs this time.
People around them: Traits from people around younger ones can also affect the way they think or they act.
For elders, avoid acting something inappropriate to younger's eye. Show them the right attitude to live with.
Younger ones almost follow what they see in elders. You cannot control other unaware people regarding this
issue or let's just say " People who don’t care". What we can do is to let younger one understand everything.
Share stories and insight, this way, they can slowly understand what is happening around them.
They can slowly understand and aware of what should be done or not.
Their experience is not enough to guide them in making decision and dealing with daily life.
This is why elders or older one must keep an eye for guidance.
I have notice that there are lots of teenagers these days lost their way.
They have given an instant responsibility at the wrong time.
The responsibility I am talking with is unwanted pregnancy.
Why does this happen?
Teenagers just want to explore life. Some factors that trigger these kind of incident are the following:
- Environment.
- Movies and televisions
- People around them.
Let’s tackle it one by one.
Environment: A person's environment can somehow affect a person's lifestyle, attitude, perspective in life, etc.
Yes, not all us can afford to choose and live the life according to what we want. Of course, the type of family you have will always counts. In this case, we need parents help to guide their children/teens.
Take note that it is parent's responsibility to take care of their child but as a concern citizen, we should impart our knowledge to build a good community as well.
Movies and Televisions: What we watch/see can become our deeds and a habit. For younger ones, we should let them see what
is appropriate with their age. Also, let them understand why they need to get away from prohibited programs this time.
People around them: Traits from people around younger ones can also affect the way they think or they act.
For elders, avoid acting something inappropriate to younger's eye. Show them the right attitude to live with.
Younger ones almost follow what they see in elders. You cannot control other unaware people regarding this
issue or let's just say " People who don’t care". What we can do is to let younger one understand everything.
Share stories and insight, this way, they can slowly understand what is happening around them.
They can slowly understand and aware of what should be done or not.
Your Life Your Rule
I am sad because
... i am disappointed.
... i am hurt.
... i am hopeless.
... no one loves me.
... i feel so alone.
... they all left me.
... they dont care bout me.
... i lost someone.
... i failed.
... some steal my stuff.
These are the few reason why you are sad.
Too many factors causes you to be sad.
But have you think that there are also too many reasons to be happy?
Why let sad things control you?
Because you are weak?
No, you are not. You're just dont want to fight.
Things around you dont exactly have control to rule you.
It will always be you. Its you who to decide and who to deal with, right?
So whatever happens, it will always be your rule.
Why dont we rephrase it.
I am sad because
... i am disappointed but I can make it up again next time.
... i am hurt but I will be strong next time and learn from it.
... i am hopeless but it will not be forever hopeless. I can still find a way.
... no one loves me but I can show people that I am deserving to be loved.
... i feel so alone but this will make me strong in the other way.
... they all left me but I can change to make them back to me.
... they dont care bout me but not all.
... i lost someone but Its not the end.
... i failed but I can be better next time.
... some steal my stuff but its just a stuff which I can replace.
It turned out better right?
How's the feeling? even better?
see... if will always be your rule.
You can always start
A sunrise after loosing someone is waiting for you.
Yes, its hard to accept that the one we love gone already.
Its hard to think that you cant be with that person again.
Its hard to imagine that you can never talk to that person with your sweet stories.
Its hard to imagine that you cant grow again with that person.
Yes, its hard but time will heal if you let it heal you.
There's always beginning. If you choose to start again, you can start again.
But if you choose to be left behind from yesterday, nothing's gonna happen to you.
You will be stuck up for the rest of your life.
You're blocking yourself to the road of happiness.
There's no other option but to move on.
Try to think of positive and happy thoughts.
Try to appreciate things and people around you.
Its like you are in a puzzled garden, trying to find your way out.
If you dont walk and look around, you wont be able to find your way out.
You wont be able to witness things outside.
It would take sometime but right time will always be just in front of you.
Just walk to reach it.Move on but dont forget the sweet memories from the past.
The person who left us physically will always stay in your heart.
They are just around looking very proud of you
Coz they know that you still stand no matter what.
It will all get better in time
There will always be a time in your life wherein you feel like hopeless.
Trials, Problems, Storms or whatever you want to call it, strikes at the same time.
You dont even had the chance to give yourself a break.
No one's to blame.And blaming will not help in the first place.
Sometimes there are uncontrolled things in life that you need to face.
Its hard to keep going coz you think, there's no way out.
Its hard to walk in the middle of a thunder storm coz you think your not strong enough to continue walking.
You think you do not have enough strength to stand against heavy wind of life.
It will always be our decision to stay and be stranded or to keep walking to reach the finish line.
Keep in mind that there is always day and night.Sun will rise no matter what.
Keep fighting and be strong.Learn from the darkness of life.
For it will make you strong more than you could imagine.Be smart enough to play life.
Everything will get better in time.Just the right time...
Love battlefield
I tried to find you among these people.
I failed many times trying to look out for you.
I hurted many times to test if its really you.
I thought its all over when you suddenly came.
I thought i will never be happy again when you suddenly make me smile.
I am so thankful when I know I now have you.
Sometimes we are in a hurry finding someone you can give your sweet love.We thought we're running out of person to love.Where in every one owned one and they expected you to have one too.Funny thing right?Where is Mr/Ms Right? Now you decided to look for that person.Experimenting... Trying to love and get hurt.Till you find him/her.Now you are ready.With all the hurt you had, you are matured now to handle things.Ready to be strong with your Mr/Ms Right?Isnt nice to know that you loved someone you thought she/he would be the last butbecame the way for you to became strong and mature in handling relationship withthe person you destined to?Loving feeling... Crazy but sweetest thing that can happen to you...
I failed many times trying to look out for you.
I hurted many times to test if its really you.
I thought its all over when you suddenly came.
I thought i will never be happy again when you suddenly make me smile.
I am so thankful when I know I now have you.
Sometimes we are in a hurry finding someone you can give your sweet love.We thought we're running out of person to love.Where in every one owned one and they expected you to have one too.Funny thing right?Where is Mr/Ms Right? Now you decided to look for that person.Experimenting... Trying to love and get hurt.Till you find him/her.Now you are ready.With all the hurt you had, you are matured now to handle things.Ready to be strong with your Mr/Ms Right?Isnt nice to know that you loved someone you thought she/he would be the last butbecame the way for you to became strong and mature in handling relationship withthe person you destined to?Loving feeling... Crazy but sweetest thing that can happen to you...
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