Waking up is the hardest part.

When you’re dreaming with a broken heart, waking up is the hardest part.
I got this line from “Dreaming with a broken heart song by John Mayer”.


In a relationship, we can’t tell how long it will last and it what way it will be done or finish.
In love, we felt that unexplainable feelings. It’s true that you can’t keep yourself not smiling. A person sees you like you’re blooming and inspired over things.
The sad part of it is, when you reach a point where in a relation must stop. It is a point where in a relationship can’t work anymore for both parties.


I know it’s hard to move on especially when you really love a person.
And it takes time to heal that broken heart.

You have an option now, move on or stay in a position where in the person you love doesn’t love you anymore?

Or vice versa, tell your partner that the feeling is not mutual anymore or stay in a position where in you can’t bring back the love to your partner?

Both hard! Right? But it’s better to be true to yourself first than pretending something that you’re not.

Stroke - S T R

I’ve read this email over and over again. It keeps on going around the network.
Though I already know the content, every time I read through the email, the value and good impression is still there. We can at least save someone’s life by knowing something about this simple steps to recognize a stroke.

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Sometimes symptoms of a stroke are difficult to identify.
Unfortunately, the lack of awareness spells disaster.
The stroke victim may suffer severe brain damage when people nearby fail to recognize the symptoms of a stroke . Now doctors say a bystander can recognize a stroke by asking three simple questions:
S * Ask the individual to SMILE.

T * Ask the person to TALK and SPEAK A SIMPLE SENTENCE (Coherently) (i.e. It is sunny out today)

R * Ask him or her to RAISE BOTH ARMS. If he or she has trouble with ANY ONE of these tasks, call 999/911 immediately and describe the symptoms to the dispatcher.

New Sign of a Stroke -------- Stick out Your Tongue

NOTE: Another 'sign' of a stroke is this: Ask the person to 'stick' out his tongue.. If the tongue is 'crooked', if it goes to one side or the other , that is also an indication of a stroke.

Your Happiness will always depend on you.


I was reading some post over the internet until I saw this line “you must not depend on other person to be happy” This line made me think of something interesting in which everyone is applicable to this phrase.
All of us can be happy in different way. In order to attain happiness, you must know what those things are.

If you now know what you really want, everything else will follow.
All your happiness will always depend on you. It will always depend on the decisions that you are going to make. Along the way, hindrances or obstacles are default. You just have to use you strategy or technique to get through it. You may fail once or twice but never give up.

A person who wants to achieve something doesn’t stop at a certain point where in he/she fails. And will only stop until he/she finally got what he/she deserves to got. Never think of negatives because if you do, everything else will fail. If you want to be happy, strive to be happy.

Don’t assume unless he/she tell something.


Actions done sometimes misinterpreted. It usually happened when one of our friends in opposite sex showing behavior that puzzled us. It is normal that they will give you gifts and extra care. Yes, it is sweet but you don’t have to think of something like, he/she likes you out from the friendship borderline. It is safer to think of it as his/her way of saying “Thank you for being a good friend or buddy”


Assuming things can make you upset in the end. It can possibly make you feel embarrassed about your feelings to the point that your relationship with him/her will be affected. You will now start to move away from that person. Then, the friendship is no longer friendship. Gap will take place in between.

If he/she tells you that he/she like you, then it is up to you on how to deal with the feelings since this is way different from the usual friend relationship with that person.

Staying away from Self Pity Attitude

Self pity attitude. A point in your life where you feel like you're doing no right.
You're doing non-sense. No productivity. No value at all.

Sometimes, we cant avoid such situations like this.
There are factors that causes this kind of feeling.
It can be something that happened to you during the day or currently happening...
It can also be something that you're imagining or thinking.

Like getting failed in exam, failed to do task in work, seeing the guy you admired walking with other girls and it
something that makes you feel really bad... etc.

They say, everything is just "State of the Mind" and it should be "Mind over Matter"
But most of the time, our emotions causes a bigger factor.
If we feel bad about something, most of the time, everything around will be affected.
This is not the right attitude but we can correct it.

A practice that we can make to correct it even in a little way is that,
We should set our goal to get matured into things around us.
Seeing things positively can keep us away from getting too emotional.
This way, we can learn and practice how to look over the things.
It can also help us or develop our personality and way of living.

So if you see the person you admired with someone else, think that there's someone better out there
waiting for you...

If you failed the exam, its a chance to prove yourself next time.

Failure doesnt mean you're weak.
Sometimes, its a strategy of getting other's attention then
showing them how you reached the peak.

Dating

Preparing yourself in a first date can be nerve-wracking sometimes. Your thinking about what will happen during the date. For ladies, it will take sometime to pick the best dress or outfit for the date even makeups and accessories to wear.First impressions is important during the first date. The best thing to do is to be yourself.Just enjoy the date with your partner. Create a good conversation with your partner and share some interest.This way, you both will start knowing each other better little by little.You dont have to pretend something that you're not.Be real.

There are chances, we may not like how the date goes.Showing unlikely manner can bring disaster to both of you.You should learn to deal with it no matter what happen.You can discuss it with your partner and maybe next time you both can make it better.

Before the date end, make sure to express that you're thankful for the chance of going out together.