Why is it so hard for us to forgive and forget some things others have done to us?
Is it because they’ve hurt us too much?
Sometimes, things happened different from the way how we want it goes.
Because of this, it makes us upset and mad.
Do you ever realize that because you can't forgive other is because you can't accept things that had happen?
You can't agree to situations given to you.
You are pushing away things you don't want. Of course! Who among you want to happened things you don't want? No one right?
But for some reasons, it will come to us and we can't hide from it.
> Deal with it
Show that you are brave enough and matured enough to face challenges in life. Take this as a test to make you grow.
> Accept it
No matter what happen, accept the situation hundred percent came from the heart. If you won’t, it will be a big burden for you. You'll never grow. You'll never be happy.
> To forgive and it’s up to you if you'll forget it or keep it.
Keeping it doesn’t mean you can’t accept it. You just want to keep it for some reasons not because of your black intentions or you're still not over it. Keep it as your guide instead.
There's always a time for everything... You don’t have to rush.
But, isn’t nice to make things happen than waiting for the right time?
Then move on and start again...
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