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Should I Stop or Should I go?

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 00:04:00 +0000

Falling in love is unexplainable. You don’t know how and why but you just felt it.
Out from your busy world, you never realize that there is someone out there looking at you and start to admire you.
As time goes by, you fall too… and it’s somehow a fulfillment when you know that he’/ she’s there to catch you. Love is in the air!!! As you go through the relationship, you begin to know each other better and deeper. You already know what he/she likes and not.
Your patience became longer. No more childish acts except when you’re just trying to be sweet. The relationship went well. The love became strong. The seed of trust has already planted and grew like tree.
But, what will you do when all of a sudden one says, due to religion matters, you can’t be together? Or Due to traditional beliefs you can’t be together?
It’s like an apple in your hand but you can’t eat it because it’s not yours and you’re not allowed to. It’s like lovely flowers from someone’s garden surrounded by high fences and you can’t pick it but only look at it.
It’s like you were driving fast on the road to catch a flight. Should you beat the red light to get there on time and fly away or Stop and let the plane go…
Beating the red light is somehow beating the rules just to be with someone you love.
But consequences are, when you beat the rules, are you ready to pay charges of your action? If you stop and let it go, are you ready to start a new life again?
Both hard…

Loving is never easy

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Tue, 19 May 2009 09:32:00 +0000

You sometimes thought you’re okay and good.
The feeling makes you feel good
But when it comes to a situation where in
You don’t know where you’re relationship going
Makes you feel so weak and hopeless
Instead of believing yourself and the love that you have
You decided to just let it go and stop holding on.
The sad part is, you were not given a chance to prove the love that you have
You never had the chance to know if that love can possibly last.
The fear of getting hurt is the cause.
Stepping into a stone called impossible.
Not wanting to move on and try other option.
It’s a fear of taking risk.
From there, you have to start again.

Anger won't help at all

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 15:04:00 +0000

Sometimes, no matter how hard trying not to loose temper, your anger would still beat you. No matter how hard not to give offensive words, you can’t still control your mouth to shut. No matter how hard not to do things that may hurt someone; you can’t have the power over it to stop. This is because we are angry or mad at someone.

Sometimes, we decided on things when we are irritated. Do you think it is right? Do you think it will help you solve your problem? There is no good in making a decision when you are emotionally unconditioned. Am I right? That is because when we are angry, our mind and heart is listening to your other self who gives negative advice which is not helpful.

When making a decision, make sure you are in condition and no emotional discharge.
Else, everything will go wrong… Condition yourself first before doing such actions.
Anger won’t help you. You are matured enough to know when is the right time to make such actions. Be responsible enough for any actions that you may be doing.

You have a choice

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 02:40:00 +0000

You have a choice.
In everything that you do, you always have a choice.
In school, if you want to pass the exam, you have a choice to
study or not. Expect a pass or failed grade.
In the office, sometimes we feel like so tired of going to a
place over and over again with a bunch of work in your desk. You
always have the choice to come or not to come. Expect a promotion
or get domoted.
In love, if someone dumped you, you have a choice to dump him
too. You have a choice to love the person even after all the
things done to you. Expect a love back or a hoping person forever.
In everything that you do and in everything that you have, you
always have the choice on how are you going to handle it.Try to look over the things. Try to imagine what might happen. Worst come to Worst or or something even better.

Undisciplined

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 01:31:00 +0000

Who doesn't want to start their day Happy?No one, right?
Some people are unaware of their actions and leads to
undisciplined manner which is kinda disappointing.I am on my way going to the office. I reached my destination and
when I was about to get off from a jeepney ride, these bunch of
people block the door and tried to go inside. How can I go out
properly when they are there blocking my way? How can they sit if
we are still inside? Why can't they wait till we free up the
seat? The door is too tight for us to go out and for them to get inside
at the same time. I even hit the door with my head.In frustration, i lose my temper and say,Can you please move away from the door so we can move out and u
can get in?
Even though they are late or whatever reason why they were in a
hurry getting inside, sometimes we should keep on watching our
action.
Is it hard to give way first and wait for your turn?"Haste makes waste" remember that always.
It always happen in any public transportation like train,bus,
taxi, etc.
We are longing for a good and peaceful country, right?But how can we have that in place if in a simple way we can't do
it in ourselves?
This is also a matter of applying the "give and take
relationship"
If we do this over and over again, I think it will be too hard
for us to move on and its frustrating...

Not Yesterday Not Tomorrow, But NOW.

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Mon, 01 Sep 2008 16:35:00 +0000

There’s always a reason
…why we’ve met each other
…why I learn to love you same way you do or even more that you do.
What we know now is that, we are together.
We might not know what will happen tomorrow
But I want you to know, I love you now and I hope this will last forever.

We met different types of people for whatever reason.
Not knowing why, it’s just meant to happen.
Along the way, we started to fall to that very special person.
Starting to love everything… everything they’ve got.
As the time goes by, the love work both ways…
Share everything through the name of love.
Feels great right?
We might not know what will happen tomorrow
At least we know now, we have someone to love and to lean on.
Someone who will take care of us and someone to be taken care of.
The most important thing is now. So make the most of it till it’s not over.

Unloading thoughts in mind

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Mon, 25 Aug 2008 14:01:00 +0000

I am alone in the room.
Writing what’s on my mind.
I don’t have any subject to write about.
I just do.
And now, I have few lines created.
What would be the next?
Thoughts in my mind are bare.
No emotional stuffs to put in writing.
I just want to construct something out of nothing.
Is this worth it?
What do you think?
Have you done something like this?
I bet you do.
You can’t just do something until you suddenly do something.
Without even thinking what would you really want to achieve.
Now, this is it.

This is something like outlet of your unknown thoughts.
With all the things that makes you think so hard and so deep can make your mind or thoughts became empty.
And now you don’t know where to start until you begin at something that’s not really on your mind to begin with.

Somehow it can help relax your mind, am I right?
Yes it is. Your mind was like doing some exercise.
Feel the difference between doing something with your mind working really hard and
doing something freely out of your mind’s thought.
It’s less stressful at the same time, unloading your heavy thoughts in mind.

Person that fits

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Mon, 25 Aug 2008 13:59:00 +0000

Everybody knows nobody's perfect.
So dont always expect a perfect person.
Let's talk about how can we make a person perfect for us.
I personally dont know how. Standards are not set yet.
The big question is, do we really have to set a standard to make a person
perfect for our eyes? Wait! We are getting personal here.
Let's have some general discussions about "Perfect" or "Ideal"

Being a perfect person will always depend on what other sees you or depends on the position that fits for you.

Lets have some example here:

You are perfect to someone's eyes. You became ideal because of what that person sees on you.
Sometimes you are not aware of it but being you will always be perfect as they adore you.
For some people, you are nothing but for the person who likes you will disregard everything
negative coz you are the apple of their eyes.

You are perfect for the job. You are hired because you fits in the position. You are capable of doing such things
according to the job that you have. This is not all about the physical and emotional aspect. This is about what
you can do and what other sees on you.

We are all not perfect but we can be perfect in some things and for some people.
We can't do everything but we can be good at something and more like the ideal one.
Acceptance from other people makes us perfect.
Learning from ourselves makes us perfect too or called faultless.
Remember, "Practice makes you perfect"
See... It always work on both ways.
If you want to be good at something, you have learn and make other accept you for what you can do
and can possibly make you a person that fits.

Factors why teenagers losing their way

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Mon, 25 Aug 2008 13:55:00 +0000

Most of the teenagers nowadays are encircled with temptations.
Their experience is not enough to guide them in making decision and dealing with daily life.
This is why elders or older one must keep an eye for guidance.

I have notice that there are lots of teenagers these days lost their way.
They have given an instant responsibility at the wrong time.
The responsibility I am talking with is unwanted pregnancy.

Why does this happen?
Teenagers just want to explore life. Some factors that trigger these kind of incident are the following:
- Environment.
- Movies and televisions
- People around them.

Let’s tackle it one by one.

Environment: A person's environment can somehow affect a person's lifestyle, attitude, perspective in life, etc.
Yes, not all us can afford to choose and live the life according to what we want. Of course, the type of family you have will always counts. In this case, we need parents help to guide their children/teens.
Take note that it is parent's responsibility to take care of their child but as a concern citizen, we should impart our knowledge to build a good community as well.

Movies and Televisions: What we watch/see can become our deeds and a habit. For younger ones, we should let them see what
is appropriate with their age. Also, let them understand why they need to get away from prohibited programs this time.

People around them: Traits from people around younger ones can also affect the way they think or they act.
For elders, avoid acting something inappropriate to younger's eye. Show them the right attitude to live with.
Younger ones almost follow what they see in elders. You cannot control other unaware people regarding this
issue or let's just say " People who don’t care". What we can do is to let younger one understand everything.
Share stories and insight, this way, they can slowly understand what is happening around them.
They can slowly understand and aware of what should be done or not.

Your Life Your Rule

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Sun, 17 Aug 2008 03:11:00 +0000

I am sad because

... i am disappointed.

... i am hurt.

... i am hopeless.

... no one loves me.

... i feel so alone.

... they all left me.

... they dont care bout me.

... i lost someone.

... i failed.

... some steal my stuff.

These are the few reason why you are sad.

Too many factors causes you to be sad.

But have you think that there are also too many reasons to be happy?

Why let sad things control you?

Because you are weak?

No, you are not. You're just dont want to fight.

Things around you dont exactly have control to rule you.

It will always be you. Its you who to decide and who to deal with, right?

So whatever happens, it will always be your rule.

Why dont we rephrase it.

I am sad because

... i am disappointed but I can make it up again next time.

... i am hurt but I will be strong next time and learn from it.

... i am hopeless but it will not be forever hopeless. I can still find a way.

... no one loves me but I can show people that I am deserving to be loved.

... i feel so alone but this will make me strong in the other way.

... they all left me but I can change to make them back to me.

... they dont care bout me but not all.

... i lost someone but Its not the end.

... i failed but I can be better next time.

... some steal my stuff but its just a stuff which I can replace.

It turned out better right?

How's the feeling? even better?

see... if will always be your rule.

You can always start

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Sun, 17 Aug 2008 02:59:00 +0000

A sunrise after loosing someone is waiting for you.

Yes, its hard to accept that the one we love gone already.

Its hard to think that you cant be with that person again.

Its hard to imagine that you can never talk to that person with your sweet stories.

Its hard to imagine that you cant grow again with that person.

Yes, its hard but time will heal if you let it heal you.

There's always beginning. If you choose to start again, you can start again.

But if you choose to be left behind from yesterday, nothing's gonna happen to you.

You will be stuck up for the rest of your life.

You're blocking yourself to the road of happiness.

There's no other option but to move on.

Try to think of positive and happy thoughts.

Try to appreciate things and people around you.

Its like you are in a puzzled garden, trying to find your way out.

If you dont walk and look around, you wont be able to find your way out.

You wont be able to witness things outside.

It would take sometime but right time will always be just in front of you.

Just walk to reach it.Move on but dont forget the sweet memories from the past.

The person who left us physically will always stay in your heart.

They are just around looking very proud of you

Coz they know that you still stand no matter what.

It will all get better in time

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Sun, 17 Aug 2008 02:41:00 +0000

There will always be a time in your life wherein you feel like hopeless.

Trials, Problems, Storms or whatever you want to call it, strikes at the same time.

You dont even had the chance to give yourself a break.

No one's to blame.And blaming will not help in the first place.

Sometimes there are uncontrolled things in life that you need to face.

Its hard to keep going coz you think, there's no way out.

Its hard to walk in the middle of a thunder storm coz you think your not strong enough to continue walking.

You think you do not have enough strength to stand against heavy wind of life.

It will always be our decision to stay and be stranded or to keep walking to reach the finish line.

Keep in mind that there is always day and night.Sun will rise no matter what.

Keep fighting and be strong.Learn from the darkness of life.

For it will make you strong more than you could imagine.Be smart enough to play life.

Everything will get better in time.Just the right time...

Love battlefield

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Sat, 02 Aug 2008 07:51:00 +0000

I tried to find you among these people.
I failed many times trying to look out for you.
I hurted many times to test if its really you.
I thought its all over when you suddenly came.
I thought i will never be happy again when you suddenly make me smile.
I am so thankful when I know I now have you.

Sometimes we are in a hurry finding someone you can give your sweet love.We thought we're running out of person to love.Where in every one owned one and they expected you to have one too.Funny thing right?Where is Mr/Ms Right? Now you decided to look for that person.Experimenting... Trying to love and get hurt.Till you find him/her.Now you are ready.With all the hurt you had, you are matured now to handle things.Ready to be strong with your Mr/Ms Right?Isnt nice to know that you loved someone you thought she/he would be the last butbecame the way for you to became strong and mature in handling relationship withthe person you destined to?Loving feeling... Crazy but sweetest thing that can happen to you...

Game of Love

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Sat, 05 Jul 2008 12:33:00 +0000

I’ve been in love.
I know the feeling of cloud nine every time you’re with your special someone.
I know the feeling of being cared for. You were like a baby.
Every word may sound funny but keeps your heart beating so fast.

It’s so nice when you are in love right?
You have the inspiration. Keep you alive even more than 24 hours.
The smile in your face is not fading.

But, how is it when it turns everything to opposite?
What if the love fades? The sweetness fades?
The sweet words turn sour and bitter?

The feeling sometimes is like; you’re carrying tons of rock.
You feel like want to explode like a bomb.
You wish you were like a bubble then disappear after a while.

This is the game of love.
You have to experience every kind of downfalls and cloud nine.
As you play the game, play it right. You may have missed something that will make you in regret for the rest of your life.

Happy Father's Day

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Sat, 14 Jun 2008 11:24:00 +0000

Its father's day!
What have you prepared something for your Dad, Papa whatever you call him?

Our father usually the bread winner in the family.
He always make sure that everything inside the house is fine.
Sometimes, we find it so strict whenever he create rules.Specially for girls, right?
It is because he want you to be safe always.Treating you were like a princess sometimes.
For the guys, of course he is a buddy.
This coming father's day, do you have any idea on what present are yougoing to give?

1. Cook food for him.-ask your mom's help bout his favorite food and cook for him.
2. Buy or create a card for him- sweet message is not that cheap. Sometimes, its the most precious thing you could give him
3. If he's working at the office, buy something he can put in his desk likecoffee cup etc.
4. A frame with pictures of the whole family.
5. Buy stuffs for him. Stuffs you know he can use.

This is just some of the tips you can do for him.Anything that comes in your mind will always be special to him.

Loosing for the win.

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Sat, 24 May 2008 09:00:00 +0000

Does it feel good when your competing with someone you know who cant win?

You were like "I am the best"

Sometimes, most of them are doing anything to win.

Even the worst thing in the world for the win.

So to make that person stop being so stupid on you

You'll just let him get whatever he/she wants

But at the back of your mind, you are laughing out loud and saying

"Sometimes the best win is losing for someone who wants to win badly but cant win."

Feeling bad

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Sat, 24 May 2008 08:51:00 +0000

when you feel bad sometimes

You cant really hide it.

Even though u want to

You just cant do it.

Its really hard hiding what you really feel inside.

The feeling is like, there's a bomb that wants to explode inside you.

Putting it into writings to lessen the hard feelings Or

Shouting out loud and do something and make yourself so busy to forget about it

This is sometime a good bad feelings reliever.

Are you going to ask why I am saying this?

You are right, Im feeling bad today for whatever reason. :(

Foot Prints in the Sand - By Leona Lewis

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Sun, 04 May 2008 03:17:00 +0000

Leona Lewis Footprints In The Sand Lyrics
I find this song really cute and touching.
It can also be dedicated to your special friend or a family member.
A message saying that you'll always be there to stand beside someone.
And that no matter what happen, Your love will always be given to that person.

Whatever you call her - She will always be the woman that make us whole.

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Sun, 04 May 2008 03:00:00 +0000

A celebration of "Mother's Day" this coming second
Sunday of May.
For some, this is very special. Due to the fact that, our mother gives lot
of sacrifice in the family.
They take good care of us, cook food for us, prepare our clothes etc.
Their sweet advices and sweet I love yous melt our heart.
We all know that they are part of our growing up and the whole personality
itself. Why dont you make something special on Mother's day?

Here are some tips.

1. Give her card.
-You can create your own card out of your creativity.
-You can also buy cards in the card stand.
-The important thing here is 'The message" you can give to your mother.
It's the thought that counts

2. Know what's her fave stuffs.
-Of course you must know what stuffs she likes a lot.
-If she love's cooking, you dont you buy her something she can use in the kitchen.
-It could also be her fave dress or blouse.

3. Buy her Chocolates and Flowers.
-Something like courting your mother is a sweet thing to do too.
-YOu can also give her balloon.

4. Treat her to a spa.
-Make her feel, she dont have to think of the chores and all the stuffs in the house.
Let her relax and feel like a Queen.

5. Cook food for her.
-If you are good in cooking, why dont you prepare a food for her.
-Create a romantic table for two.
-You will be the one to manage the set, and Dad will take care of the rest. Hmmm Good idea.
-YOu can also bake a cake for her.

6. Sing for her.
-You can also let her sit for a while and give her a song that will surely melt her heart.

There are lot of things you can do to surprise your mother.
YOu dont have to spend a lot if you dont have enough budget.
What you think is special for her will always be the best.

Who doesnt want to sweat and smell good?

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Sat, 08 Mar 2008 12:25:00 +0000

Of course no one! I got this message from an email. I know its common to see things on how to take care of ourselves but sometimes we almost forgot to do it because of our pretty busy day.
Here are some pointers that can somehow remind us all about on how it feels like to be so clean inside and out.

* Take a warm shower daily using a natural loaf and strong-smelling soap or pamper yourself with a beautiful scented shower gel. You can take a shower more than once a day according to your skin nature. You could also use anti-bacterial soap or cleanser with a moisture.

* Drink large amounts of water and fresh juice everyday.

* Eat a lot of fruits and vegetables everyday and avoid food that contains caffeine like chocolate, tea, coffee, along with pungent food, pastrami, and hilbah (fenugreek) seeds.

* Change your clothes when they get dirty, greasy, and full of sweat and wash them immediately; that includes what you wear indoors and outdoors and your sleeping gown/pajamas, and of course change your underwear daily.

* Remove your underarm hair on a regular basis.

* Use suitable kinds of deodorant directly after shower. They come in different forms, such as powder, cream, splash, and roll-on. First You have to be sure that it doesn't contain alcohol so as not to blacken your underarm. For girls especially, you can use natural fruit deodorants. They smell good and at the same time they are not very strong scented.

* Avoid synthetic clothes that are purely made of nylon and polyester. Exchange them with clothes made of cotton as it absorbs the sweat and does not cause dermatitis (skin inflammation). Or at least you can wear cotton underwear as it is the closest thing to your skin.

* Spraying perfume under your armpits won't hide the bad smell. Instead, It will react with sweat salts causing dermatitis, black and dark areas in the skin. Plus, alcohol evaporates real fast!

* If you're allergic to regular deodorants or don't like them, there's quite a wonderful natural option: crystal deodorant rock. It's very cheap and odorless, and it doesn't have any side effects. It can be found in herbal shops.

Waking up is the hardest part.

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Mon, 25 Feb 2008 05:22:00 +0000

When you’re dreaming with a broken heart, waking up is the hardest part.
I got this line from “Dreaming with a broken heart song by John Mayer”.

In a relationship, we can’t tell how long it will last and it what way it will be done or finish.
In love, we felt that unexplainable feelings. It’s true that you can’t keep yourself not smiling. A person sees you like you’re blooming and inspired over things.
The sad part of it is, when you reach a point where in a relation must stop. It is a point where in a relationship can’t work anymore for both parties.

I know it’s hard to move on especially when you really love a person.
And it takes time to heal that broken heart.

You have an option now, move on or stay in a position where in the person you love doesn’t love you anymore?

Or vice versa, tell your partner that the feeling is not mutual anymore or stay in a position where in you can’t bring back the love to your partner?

Both hard! Right? But it’s better to be true to yourself first than pretending something that you’re not.

Stroke - S T R

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Wed, 20 Feb 2008 02:59:00 +0000

I’ve read this email over and over again. It keeps on going around the network.
Though I already know the content, every time I read through the email, the value and good impression is still there. We can at least save someone’s life by knowing something about this simple steps to recognize a stroke.

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Sometimes symptoms of a stroke are difficult to identify.
Unfortunately, the lack of awareness spells disaster.
The stroke victim may suffer severe brain damage when people nearby fail to recognize the symptoms of a stroke . Now doctors say a bystander can recognize a stroke by asking three simple questions:
S * Ask the individual to SMILE.

T * Ask the person to TALK and SPEAK A SIMPLE SENTENCE (Coherently) (i.e. It is sunny out today)

R * Ask him or her to RAISE BOTH ARMS. If he or she has trouble with ANY ONE of these tasks, call 999/911 immediately and describe the symptoms to the dispatcher.

New Sign of a Stroke -------- Stick out Your Tongue

NOTE: Another 'sign' of a stroke is this: Ask the person to 'stick' out his tongue.. If the tongue is 'crooked', if it goes to one side or the other , that is also an indication of a stroke.

Your Happiness will always depend on you.

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Sun, 17 Feb 2008 03:40:00 +0000

I was reading some post over the internet until I saw this line “you must not depend on other person to be happy” This line made me think of something interesting in which everyone is applicable to this phrase.
All of us can be happy in different way. In order to attain happiness, you must know what those things are.

If you now know what you really want, everything else will follow.
All your happiness will always depend on you. It will always depend on the decisions that you are going to make. Along the way, hindrances or obstacles are default. You just have to use you strategy or technique to get through it. You may fail once or twice but never give up.

A person who wants to achieve something doesn’t stop at a certain point where in he/she fails. And will only stop until he/she finally got what he/she deserves to got. Never think of negatives because if you do, everything else will fail. If you want to be happy, strive to be happy.

Don’t assume unless he/she tell something.

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Sun, 17 Feb 2008 03:03:00 +0000

Actions done sometimes misinterpreted. It usually happened when one of our friends in opposite sex showing behavior that puzzled us. It is normal that they will give you gifts and extra care. Yes, it is sweet but you don’t have to think of something like, he/she likes you out from the friendship borderline. It is safer to think of it as his/her way of saying “Thank you for being a good friend or buddy”

Assuming things can make you upset in the end. It can possibly make you feel embarrassed about your feelings to the point that your relationship with him/her will be affected. You will now start to move away from that person. Then, the friendship is no longer friendship. Gap will take place in between.

If he/she tells you that he/she like you, then it is up to you on how to deal with the feelings since this is way different from the usual friend relationship with that person.

Staying away from Self Pity Attitude

noreply@blogger.com (Liberty) — Thu, 07 Feb 2008 12:17:00 +0000

Self pity attitude. A point in your life where you feel like you're doing no right.
You're doing non-sense. No productivity. No value at all.

Sometimes, we cant avoid such situations like this.
There are factors that causes this kind of feeling.
It can be something that happened to you during the day or currently happening...
It can also be something that you're imagining or thinking.

Like getting failed in exam, failed to do task in work, seeing the guy you admired walking with other girls and it
something that makes you feel really bad... etc.

They say, everything is just "State of the Mind" and it should be "Mind over Matter"
But most of the time, our emotions causes a bigger factor.
If we feel bad about something, most of the time, everything around will be affected.
This is not the right attitude but we can correct it.

A practice that we can make to correct it even in a little way is that,
We should set our goal to get matured into things around us.
Seeing things positively can keep us away from getting too emotional.
This way, we can learn and practice how to look over the things.
It can also help us or develop our personality and way of living.

So if you see the person you admired with someone else, think that there's someone better out there
waiting for you...

If you failed the exam, its a chance to prove yourself next time.

Failure doesnt mean you're weak.
Sometimes, its a strategy of getting other's attention then
showing them how you reached the peak.